Let’s Get One Thing Straight
I’ve been in this industry for 22 years. That’s right, 22 years. I started back in 1999, fresh out of college, working for a tiny boutique magazine in Chicago. I’ve seen trends come and go, and honestly? Most of it’s completley ridiculous.
But jewelry? Jewelry’s different. It’s personal. It’s emotional. And frankly, it’s a mess right now.
Remember the 90s? Yeah, Me Neither
Okay, maybe I remember a little. Big hoop earrings? Check. Chokers? You bet. But what I really remember is the committment to the look. People didn’t half-ass it. You were either all in or all out.
Now? It’s a hot mess. I was at a conference in Austin last Tuesday, and I saw a woman wearing a choker with oversized hoops. And not in a cool, retro way. It was just… wrong.
Here’s the Thing About Trends
They’re not your friend. They’re not your enemy. They just are. And if you’re not careful, you’ll end up looking like you’re trying too hard. Or worse, like you’re stuck in 2003.
I get it. Trends are fun. They’re exciting. But you gotta know when to jump in and when to jump out. And honestly? Most people have no idea.
I was having coffee with a friend last week—let’s call her Marcus. She’s a stylist, been in the game for about a decade. I asked her about the whole ‘stacking rings’ trend. She said, “It’s not going anywhere, but people are doing it wrong.”
Which… yeah. Fair enough.
Do Yourself a Favor
Look, I’m not saying you should stop wearing jewelry. I’m saying you should think about what you’re wearing. And why.
I remember this one time, back in 2005, I was working with a designer named Dave. He told me, “Jewelry should tell a story.” And honestly? That stuck with me.
So before you go out and buy the latest trendy piece, ask yourself: What story am I trying to tell? And is this piece gonna help me tell it?
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Let’s Talk About Minimalism
I know, I know. You’re tired of hearing about it. But hear me out. Minimalism isn’t going anywhere. And honestly? It’s a good thing.
I’ve seen people try to pull off the ‘less is more’ look, and it’s not pretty. It’s not about owning fewer pieces. It’s about choosing the right pieces. And wearing them with confidence.
I was at a party last month, and this guy—let’s call him Marcus—was wearing a single, simple necklace. It was subtle, but it made a statement. And honestly? It worked.
A Quick Note on Personal Style
Here’s the thing: trends come and go, but personal style? That’s forever. And if you’re not sure what your personal style is, that’s okay. It takes time to figure it out.
I remember when I first started out, I was all over the place. One day I’d be rocking the grunge look, the next I’d be all about the preppy vibe. It was a mess. But eventually, I found my groove. And you will too.
Just give it time. And in the meantime, have fun with it. Try new things. Make mistakes. Learn from them. And for the love of all that’s holy, don’t be afraid to accessorize.
Okay, One Last Thing
I’m gonna say something controversial here. Ready? Not every trend is for everyone. Shocking, I know.
Just because something is ‘in’ doesn’t mean you have to wear it. In fact, if you’re not feeling it, don’t. Life’s too short to wear things that make you feel uncomfortable. Or, you know, like a try-hard.
So do yourself a favor. Be selective. Be intentional. And for the love of all that’s holy, don’t be afraid to say no.
About the Author
Lena Carter has been a senior editor at major fashion publications for over two decades. She’s seen it all, done it all, and has the opinionated takes to prove it. When she’s not writing, you can find her hunting for vintage jewelry or arguing with her cat about who’s the real diva in the house.
